Happy holidays!

Well, not too much new here.. Our Christmas was as usual, my mom surprised me by doing very well with our gifts. (that goes along way with my mom!!) I got a digtal picture frame from my love, 2 different sets of picture coasters, and a 3 peice picture frame set, with family and friends thing that goes in the front. I told him, he has to put another hole on both sides so i can put both in there... But I'm very happy with all the picture things, LOVE THEM!!!!! I of course also got my fashion bug card. I went and got close to $100 worth, but it came down to $67 and still got close to $8 bucks left.. I got 2 jeans, a shirt, and a sweater type thing *coat*..
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Mr Smarty Pants thought i'd be great to get rid of his desk and to get the desk from his parents. (not too bad of an idea I like the desk) however, it's not small enough for the space we have. So now since it's too big for this space, HE has to re-arrange everything tonight.. It's a small space and I won't have the internet for like an hour or two hopefully he won't screw it up too much...
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Soo, the one job fell through since he had a job the guy said he hired this other dude cuz he didn't have a job.. Well little did he know that E was willing to cut back on his actual job and make that 2nd job his 1st since they give more hours and the start rate is better.. But o well that dudes lose, especially since the guy he hired is nothing but a loser anyway. He'll last for maybe a year if that. Thats probally giving him too much credit. Anyway.. He still has to call about another job, put in 2 apps at 2 other places we thought of. And He's going to go talk to dude tomorrow sometime I guess, to find out more about a position that would able him to run a resturnat. He worked there before, he done most of it before at this particular place. However, that wasn't his position to do then, so the pay didn't go well with that. Him and another guy were taking over for a guy that was out of work and they never got another guy to take over. (if this makes sence).. Soo now this position is actually open and is up for a salary rate. E wants to run a resturant soo bad, this would be a great oppertunity and I know he'd doing great at it. The benefits from it would be awesome as well. The pay, would allow us to be "OK" in life and live on our own..It'd give him a flexible but alot of hours to be put in, at times it'd be flexible. I am not sure if there are actual health benefits... We'd get a discount on hotels, and be able to take weekend or weekday trips. AND AND AND!!!! Eheheheh, since it's a choice hotel, we'd possibly get a discount on our wedding reception now I'm keen on the idea of NOT having it at that hotel however I want it at the holiday inn near the casino which is also the winter circle so I am sure we'd be able to pull some strings there!! ooo Soo excited!!

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PRAY That he gets this job. We need this soo baddly the main reason is so we can finially live on our own and live OUR lives and be able to be a "family" and then that will also help when we go get the boys.. Doesn't look well when we live with my parents in a 2 bedroom and trying to get custody of the boys. that wouldn't work good..
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Speaking of which.. Christmas Eve!! We decieded to get them something. being 5 yrs since he's been in there live of any contact he has no idea what they are into. No idea what size they are however, we know they are still slender and about weist hight or a tad taller (from pictures I saw on the mom's myspace hehehe).. anyway. We got them a pant set and the same size so if anything it's too big. I didn't realize how hard it is to shop for boys you don't know what they like. For a girl hell all you got to do is buy a barbie or a doll and they'd be happy lol.. Soo anyway, I wrapped them up in the boxes and then we copied the court papers and I wrapped them up in a box for the mom. The point was to make her know she is in contempt and he's not playing so he will take it to court.. (as soon as we can afford our own place and afford a laywer payment every month WE WILL take it to court) but she doesn't need to know that part. She is in contempt them papers were to remind her that, that custody/visitiation arrangment still stands after this long. They are still in the vaild and mean something. Now we have no clue if she would even allow the boys to unwrap or even keep the clothing and all we know and can smile about a little is that she definitally was "bit&ching" up a storm and we possibly ruined her day. So that makes him smile knowing how harsh she has been. I know it hurts him soo much. It hurts me not knowing what to do, now understanding what can be done. I come from a family that my parents are married and we don't have to go through the courts or visitations.. He's from a mixed family, not that, that makes it any easier but it makes it a little more understanding. I think..
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Over all We had a great Christmas and was able to get eachother something, thinking we were getting nothing. So it was nice. We are starting to save little by little. I got approved for the medical card so that will help with my BC and cut back on that "bill" so thats extra money we can save every month....

Hoping 2010 is way better then 2009. IT's starting off better alrady so thats a good thing. 2008 didn't end so well so that kinda made the point that 2009 wasn't going to be a good year. If 2009 continues to end on a good/decent note, that I hope will mean 2010 will be a better year then 2009. And of course 2011 is right around the corner and will be even a BETTER YEAR!! SInce we are getting married then..
April will be here before we know it and thats the earliest we can put a deposit on our venue. I want to talk to the pastor as well to try and figure out what needs to be done (paid) for so we can use him and the church to get married.
Alright well I have to take my aunt home so I will blog again some other time.





aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh why would any normal parent allow their children or child run continuely throughout an upstairs apartment.. ALL DAY AND NIGHT!!! When they wake me up at 746am you know they are loud I'm HARD TO WAKE UP.. I sleep sound. They were at it then and again I heard them at a little before 9 and throught out the afternoon, and now they are at it even louder before 9PM!!! aaahhh

OK vent done there bye