One more year that past with Earl not being able to see the boys. For me not to be able to meet my future step sons. Another year that past that her pocket got filled with his money. Another year that she completely ignored every attempt we made to contact her.
The year that wasn't the greatest for me. Living in pain each and every day. Seeing who my real true friends are, and becoming closer to the man I fall in love with each and every day (minus when he's picking on me). Changes started in the process in this past year. Changes that have to continue to change in 2010. Love is stronger then hate!!!
2010 will be BETTER it's a new year, a new Decade!!!
2010 will be new, will be different!! For money reasons. We'll get our own place, he'll get a 2nd job or maybe even a better paying job. After we're settled in our own place, WE WILL be doing everything in our power to get HER for contempt, and make her pay for ruining the last 2 yrs of his life (5 yrs total, 3 of which could have been contacted via mail and phone, may have been his fault but anyway)....We will make a stand that woman want their baby's dad to see the children and pay child support. Thats great But then there are low lifes that don't want anything to do with the child/children and don't bother seeing or paying for them.
We always hear about these guys and we hardly ever hear of the more and more common, that there are woman out there moving on with there lives, wanting the money but not wanting the father in the children's lives.!!
This is becoming more and more common. If you have a child, you pay for them, if you have a child you should see them, call them, be apart of their lives. IF you have a child that you have all the time, you want to collect the money so allow the father to be apart of the child's life....
Some people have done things and has paid for them. That is no reason to keep your children away from the father that continues to put money in your account each and every week. That continues to strive to see what his boys look like, that continues to hurt each and every minute but hurts even more each and every time he see's children out and about, or on the holidays and father's day, birthdays. It hurts 10x's more. I can't even imagine what he feels on days like today. Not knowing what his boys are doing and knowing he wants to see them so badly but just can't afford to get that laywer to make it happen.
Everything in life is all about MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!
This "mom" gives alot of woman a bad name. I know far to well there are plenty of couples out there that had children and are working things out calmly, seeing the kids, and paying and maybe even not paying but the mom still allows the child to be apart of his life. Cuz the mom's realize it's about the child not just diapers and milk and the hatered or the feelings she has with the father. It's ABOUT THE CHILD OR CHILDREN. Some woman can not take this and make it different. They need to seperate the feelings they have toward the other parent and start thinking of the growing children that are invovled.
Ok soo thats one major part that will take place this new year. He will get a better paying or a second job, and we'll get our own place. My parents will be moving out of state. We'll be living our lives, FIGHTING FOR THE BOYS!!, planning our wedding. And trying to get by each and every day....
HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL!!PRAYING YOU ALL HAVE A SAFE AND HAPPY YEAR!!!!!
NEW YEAR!!!
NEW DECADE!!
NEW THINGS!!!
BETTER YEAR!!!!!
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